Communication is another thing that made much more sense after my changed eating habits and which felt way more natural than ever before.
I've always been passionate by communication and I truly believe it is one of the keys for fruitful relationships.
I personally find the non verbal one the most powerful. They are so profound and natural that it's such a universal communication. I have just the feeling that I unlearned to communicate that way, or to take it into consideration when communicating with someone. I had to learn again, what was natural to me. Friendship, compassion, love, respect, generosity… is all so easy to see or shown nonverbal, so without words, now I didn't see them anymore and definitely didn't express them anymore towards others.
After nonverbal, the verbal communication is what helped me keep relationships at the level I wanted them to be. Now communication is bidirectional, meaning that it is, if not more important, at least as important to listen, compared to speaking.
The trickiest part in listening, I still struggle with it today, is to do it for all subjects in a non judging way. Really, everyone has his strengths, weaknesses and is on his journey to try the best they can, just like I'm.
Communication is something in which I learn every day, now if everybody has unlearned it like I do, how will I be able to get it back?
I've not unlearned it, it has always been with me, I've just not used it anymore. The greatest teachers of great clear non-verbal, verbal and non judging communication are from my point of view the kids. I've learned so much from them and they have so naturally in them what I had learned to conditionally not using anymore.
When I really listen to a kid, they almost always say very clearly what they are looking for, what bothers them, how happy they are…
Kids are my true inspiration of great communication. If I want to make up with someone, we've a mutual desire to do so, communication like kids do, has always brought me there!
I give it a try everyday, to find the true communication within me, which is natural, non-verbal, verbal, not judging, listening, speaking and expressing.
Be my true self and accept the others to be there best true self as well.
The world is full of wonderful living creatures!
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